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Support and Flexibility
Flexibility
The Nitty Gritty of Breastfeeding Twins
One at a Time
The biggest disadvantage of the one-at-a-time method is that Baby No. 2 may not be patiently
waiting while you breastfeed Baby No. 1!
And, this requires a double commitment of time. So learning how
to breastfeed both babies at once is a useful skill.
Two at Once
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Now, more than ever, you need to establish
a support network. Check out any twin clubs in your area – these can be
wonderful places to meet other mothers who are facing the same challenges
you are. Attend La Leche League meetings in your area – often you can find
other nursing mothers of twins who are more than happy to share tips for
managing the day-to-day realities of breastfeeding twins. Take advantage of iParenting.com's discussion groups. If you
should be confined to bed rest for the last weeks of your pregnancy, talking with other moms online can become a real lifeline for
you.
This is the biggest key to success as
far as breastfeeding twins – and twin management in general. No doubt you'll read some great ideas about how to manage breastfeeding that when actually put to the
test simply won't work for you. Remember, breastfeeding
is an art, and what works for one mom and baby (babies!) may not work for
every mom and baby. Your babies may very well have totally different temperaments
and scheduling needs, and you'll soon learn how to incorporate these differences
in your plans. Take each day as it comes!
But HOW do you go about breastfeeding
twins? You may be saying to yourself (and the rest of the world!),"I only
have two hands!" The biggest question is whether to nurse your babies simultaneously
or separately. It's a good idea to learn how to do both, so that way you
can be more flexible and take things as they come. Either way works and depends largely on how well your individual babies latch on and nurse and how
much in sync their internal schedules are.
To begin with, this may be the easiest
way to handle breastfeeding, especially if you have never breastfed before.
Breastfeeding one at a time allows you to take special care in positioning
and gives you one-on-one time with each baby. It is not unusual for moms
of twins to feel more strongly about one baby or the other, and by nursing
each baby separately, you make it easier to bond with both babies. Your
newborn will be a rookie at breastfeeding and may need extra help – and
both hands – to properly latch on and nurse well. He'll learn quickly, though!
For many moms of twins, this is the most practical solution, if for no other reason than the time-saving
factor.
It requires learning the logistics of how to arrange the babies at the
breast. It helps to keep in mind that twins are used to being together
and in tight places, so "overlapping" babies in various arrangements may
seem quite natural to them! You
may find that using a specially designed nursing pillow to support the
weight of the babies and bring them up to breast level makes life easier
for everybody. Because you will spend so much time with at least one baby
at the breast, it is important to pay close attention to positioning so
your nipples won't get sore. Some common two-at-once positions include:
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About the Author: Melissa Clark Vickers, MEd, IBCLC, is an International Board Certified Lactation Consultant (IBCLC) and freelance writer. She is also an accredited La Leche League Leader with two children, both of whom were breastfed.
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